Kampen om virkeligheten og frykten for nå-øyeblikket. Om å møte den andre i en oppsplittet verden. Per Øyvind Fosse Psykologspesialist. Spesialisert Poliklinikk for Psykosomatikk og traumer..

There are the quiet and excited states There are the quiet and excited states. I think an infant cannot be aware at the start that while feeling this and that in his cot, or enjoying the skinstimulations of bathing, he is the same as himself screaming for immediate satisfaction, posessed by an urge to get at and destroy something unless satisfied by milk. D. Winnicott (1945)

Refleksjon i Speilet. Transitional space

Traumetriangelet Meg Ikke Meg Ignorans- Fokus på daglig fungering Sårbarhet – Bærer det vonde Kontroll- Identifikasjon med overgriper

Dissosiasjon ”I could be bounded in a nutshell, and count myself king of infinite space, were it not that I have bad dreams” Hamlet. W. Shakespeare.

In order to preserve the attachment connection and preserve mental stability, the mind triggers a survival solution, dissociation, that allows the person to bypass the mentally disorganzing struggle to self reflect without hope of relieving the pain and fear caused by the destabilization of selfhood. Dissociation narrows ones range of perception so as to set up nonconflictual categories of self experience as different parts of the self. P. Bromberg.

Den sentrale kvaliteten ved dissosiasjon er fremmedgjøringen Den sentrale kvaliteten ved dissosiasjon er fremmedgjøringen. Den kan ses som både målet med, og konsekvensen av dissosiasjon. ”Jeg er ikke her. Dette skjer ikke”.

Therapy involved having to live through, inhabit and play in the horrific transitional space, which this patient brought into therapy. Joseph Newirth

”Repeatedly created anew. A self, the inclusive symbolization of one´s own being” Dodi Goldman The self as an emergent property, Of a complex system. D. Siegel

Personalisering. Det skjedde med meg Realisering Det er over nå.

Å holde to sider i samme sinn. Jobbing med barnedeler. Evne til psykologisk konflikt. « A new experience of holding the conflict in mind replaces the old strategy of absenting herself throught dissociation»

Psychological practice is at root an interpersonal relationship between therapist and patient Everything sits on top of the capacity to form a relationship. We must train our ability to be in a relationship. (Værekraft). The doctor must go to the limits of his subjectivity, otherwise the patient will be unable to follow suit. Allan Schore.

”Standing in the spaces” (P Bromberg) Anbefalt lesning: ”Standing in the spaces” (P Bromberg) ”Awakening the dreamer” (P Bromberg) ”In the Shadow of the Tsunami (P.Bromberg) The Dissociative mind in Psychoanalysis (Howell and Itzkowitz) The Mask of Shame (Leon Wurmser)